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2007.09.29

Giving

It's time to think about giving to the church.  Ideally, we should all give 10% of our income to the church but that isn't always possible.   Pledging is another way that the church can plan for budgets and programs.    When I talk about giving 10%, I often get the comments back that "I give to other organizations that do good things in this world that the church doesn't do."  In a previous post, I shared a story from a colleague.   The pastor asked for 10% (Biblically based) from each member of her church.  A parishioner said, "I give to save the whales.!"   The pastor pointed out that in their community only 5% of the population attends church so couldn't the other 95% save the whales and she in turn can give to the church.  The parishioner started giving more to the church and eventually was giving 10% of her income.  In addition, she became much more involved in the church, attending regularly and participating in programs.  And to her surprise was still able to give something to save the whales!

A Bethel parishioner some time ago, gave me a site that all I have to do is bookmark it and every day click a button and I've provided a free mammogram.  Below is a list of  sites that if you click on them you provide a meal for a child, a mammogram, help with environment or with animals.  A click from your computer, pays for something desperately needed and all you do is click on the site everyday. IT'S FREE!! Each day you can add to the health of women and children, help the hungry in the world, improve education, preserve the environment and help animals.  This is a way to help and not to add to your budget.   

 Please bookmark these sites and send a prayer their way as you click on the “free” buttons.

www.thehungersite.com
www.thebreastcancersite.com
www.thechildhealthsite.com
www.theliteracysite.com
www.therainforestsite.com
http://www.theanimalrescuesite.com

2007.09.28

100 Questions for American Citizenship

In the The New York Timesthis morning is the 100 question test to become an American Citizen.   See how you do.  http://www.nytimes.com/2007/09/28/washington/28citizen.html?th&emc=th If you don't want to read the article here is the link to the test.http://www.uscis.gov/files/nativedocuments/100q.pdf.  I wonder what the test results would be if we gave these questions to all those who were born here.   How about an exit exam for high school?   Have fun!

2007.09.27

BARK A LOT IN THE PARKING LOT

On Saturday, September 29, Bethel will sponsor its first "Bark A Lot in the Parking Lot" Dog Show for the community.    From 10AM  Dogs will pay their $10 registration fee and will be judged on qualities as "the shortest ears, the longest tail, the best smile..."  The event will have vendors who sell products just for that special dog.   All dogs who "can play well with others" are invited to join in.  Owners and Dogs who do not play well with others will be asked to leave.  Lots of food, prizes and fun are expected for the day.   Any questions, please email me.

Honey, Baby, Darlin'

I am going with a group of young women to Revolve Tour - Women of Faith gathering October 19-20.   It is a huge event at Arco Arena in Sacramento.  Thousands of young women are going to be there.   The group that I am going with are part of the faith community at Bethel.    The Women of Faith events are come from a more conservative orientation but know how to throw a good party.    I had to call the central office to buy tickets for Saturday's lunch and was put on hold for about five minutes.   In those five minutes, several recorded messages were played to keep me company and entertained until a human got on the line.   In all the messages a very happy, funny woman had a message for me about God, joining the Women of Faith organization, etc.   Everyone of of the messages signed off with "honey, someone will be with you in a few minutes" or "thank you darlin'" for calling or "Baby, stay on the line someone will be helping you soon.   I haven't been referred to as honey, baby or darlin' by another women for years.  The last time was when I was in North Carolina when they talk that way.    Why do I find this offensive?   It's not a term of endearment and they don't know me!  I would not dream of calling another woman who I don't know as honey, baby, or darlin'.  I'd find out her name and use it.   I think the phone messages are a fore-shadowing of the gathering to come!!! Pray for me!!!

2007.09.12

Facing my fears!!!

We all have fears.   for the U.S. its the fear of terrorists, for Darfur it is the fear of hunger and murder, for families its the fear of not having enough.   We probably have more fears than we have hopes as a community!   So the only fear that we really can deal with is our own.

I have lots of fears among them are:   large pools of water, cockroaches and mice.   I don't ever want to be in a pool of water that doesn't have a ladder for me to climb out of or into.  I love watching the water, being near the water but don't want to be in the water.    I know that cockroaches and mice can't kill or maim but the thought of them in my garage or house will keep me up at nights with plans on how to keep them out and get rid of them.   Poison on my weeds no way!  Mice or cockroaches that's a different story!!!!
Another fear, they'll become resistant to poison and then what will I do?

The other day I went into our garage to do the laundry and when I opened the door there was a mouse looking at me!   I backed away quietly and ran into the house convinced that we had a mice infestation.  You know if you see one there are bound to be more!     I bravely waited a few minutes and went back into the garage and the mouse was still there!!!   I retreated back into the house and waited for one of the men in the house to come home and take care of the matter.  The mouse was gone by the time they came home.  Joel said that the mouse was probably dying and that's why it didn't run away when I went into the garage.

The next day, I asked Kevin to go into the garage with me to take care of any mice bodies that may have fallen on the garage floor or worse were still alive.   Of course, Kevin laughed at me and insisted that mice wouldn't be around and no bodies.    And then....

I walked outside to the garage, lifted my foot to enter and there it was a dead mouse!!! okay big deal you say but if you are afraid of mice, I think even when they are dead!!! I ran back into the house, made Kevin get the mouse and throw it away and then go into the garage to make sure there weren't any more.  Whew!!!  Now back to the laundry.....

2007.09.11

An Anniversary

I remember the day. I had a daily morning routine with Deanna. She and I would meet at the

Marina

walking path around 5:30AM. We would walk for about 90 minutes or so talking about grandchildren and the church. That particular morning we noticed  in the middle of our walk that there were no airplanes in the air.  Previously we always noticed the noise and the number of planes landing at

Oakland

Airport

. Then we noticed that there were just a few of us walking which was strange because by the time we are ready to head home the track gets very crowded. We thought it peculiar and we asked, “wonder what’s going on?” 

 It was when we headed off home and turned on our radios did we hear about the tragedy in

New York

. You must have those moments when you remember what you were doing when something tragic has happened in the world or your family. Our Anniversaries, Birthdays, etc are times when we celebrate the days of importance to us. They come up every year. We remember the day of the wedding, we rarely remember our birth. I know of couples who will celebrate their week anniversary of meeting, then the anniversary changes its meaning and focus as another date takes on more importance. In my culture, after someone dies, we celebrate their life 40 days after they died and then every year on the anniversary of the death. Anniversaries are meant to recognize that day of weddings, birthdays and deaths. We tell stories, laugh, cry and in my case have a great party. 

 This anniversary is no different. For the first anniversary we had peace celebrations, community gatherings, lots of patriotic talk, a push for vengeance, energy around protecting ourselves against the “terrorists,” paranoid/schizophrenic ideas about the “others.” We remembered all the names of the 2700 plus people who died by reading each name and remembering that they mattered. But as life would have it, the significance of that day, the memory of the lives lost and the pain experienced,  diminishes as we get busy with life. Only those who have lost ones can tell you what this day means and I don’t think they would say it was about terrorists. It was about the life of a loved one who deserves to be remembered as a father, mother, brother, sister, friend. In the last minute details of conversations of those died, it wasn’t “Make sure you get the guys who did this!” but “I love you!” 

This day saddens me

because the lives lost at the

Twin

Towers

has been used to support decisions that has caused thousands of more deaths. The families of people who died in the Towers were promised great help by politicians and we said yes to a lot of money for their care. Years later, many families have not received what was promised The military heroes who come back injured have to have big political expose’s to get the care they and their families need.  . Some of those who died were invisible to our government and never will receive what other victims were promised.  Years later, those who were part of the rescue missions at the tower and lived are dying and are now fighting with insurance companies for health care.  I don’t know the number of soldiers and innocent civilians who have died because of the “terrorists” nor do I know how many “terrorists” have died. I do know that it is in the thousands. Years later, have we learned anything?

Here's what I have learned from working with politicians and gang members, we are no different than our enemy!  We have lost our commitment, if we had any, to Jesus' greatest commandments to love God and one another.  In politics, no matter what party, it is about "me getting elected"  in gangs its about "territory, respect, and retaliation."  Yes they all say its about working for their constituencies.  Some leaders in politics and gangs are good leaders and do make a difference.  Its a matter of perspective!

For this anniversary, I hope we all take time to pray and ask God for God’s leading in our lives to help us learn from the tragedies in our lives. Pray for God’s guidance to help discern where you may be of service to humankind so that “terror” is no longer used as the tool to help us make decisions. Ask God to help make you an instrument to fight the “terror” of hunger, poverty, the “isms” in this world, poor education and violence in our street. Ask God to help each one of us to face the “terrors” we each have about the world and each other and the courage to seek Jesus in the other. Ask God to continue to be a presence for those who are physically fighting the “terrors”, teachers, military personnel, principals, police, fire, emergency, social workers and all  those who in their daily lives see the effects of the “terrors” that go unchallenged.

Keep praying!!!!!  Perhaps next anniversary, we can celebrate  PEACE AT LAST! AMEN

2007.09.09

I'm stuck and can't turn around!!!

The other night I drove my grandaughter to a dance lesson in Pacifica.  I'd never been to this place before and had good directions.   I waited in the parking lot for an hour with my other two grandaughters until the lesson was over.   When dance lessons were over, I had three hungry and tired girls to take home. So off I went onto Highway One left Pacifica and all their exits.  Then I looked at my gas guage and the indicator line was below the E.   I was driving my son's truck for the first time and had no idea how long it had been at "E" and I panicked.   I had to find an exit and pray for a gas station.    I took the first exit off and headed to the first gas station, Whew!!! also a good stop for chips and lemonade for the girls. 

I was turned around when I left the gas station and to make a long story short.   I tried shortcuts etcs.
I decided to go the way I had taken years ago to get back to my son's home, I turned left and the road was closed for construction, then I turned right...right into a dead end street with room for only one lane.   I did my best to back all the way out and I was so afraid that I was going to hit cars on both sides of me that I just went back to the dead end.  I pulled into a driveway but the truck seemed to long and I felt I was going to hit another car.   I tried all the 3 point turns I could, rubbed against branches of a tree that unsettled me.  okay I was stressed, I had three hungry girls in the truck and a stressed lola at the wheel.   I did the next best thing, I stopped the truck, got out and walked to a group of guys who were hanging out in their garage and asked if one of them could help me turn around.  I was desparate!!!

Another Whew!!  A big guy came out and squeezed himself behind the wheel (I'm short!) and with the help of his buddies, it took him about six tries before he turned the truck around and headed me out.  The guys gave me directions and I got back into the car.   My granddaughter, Evelyn  turned to me and asked, "Lola, did you know him?"   I just shrugged my shoulders and thanked God!!!!

What did I learn from this experience?
-Check the gas guage!
-Turn right onto streets that has two lanes for traffic.
-Ask for directions sooner than later!!
From my daughter, "Why didn't you stop and call someone?"  Good question!!!

2007.09.07

When we practice love....

I am reflecting on the following passage as the world becomes more complex and unbalanced.   Today on the news, "Pastor arrested as part of a corruption ring in New Jersey." What are people thinking?  Children still going to school hungry in one of the wealthiest nations.  My own community I serve, I see many people struggling to make a living wage.     Today I read in the San Leandro Times in the letters to the editor..."If my neighbor next door doesn't speak English, I'll report them to immigration!"

"Blessed is the who hear God's word and does it!"   What would happen if we practiced love in the manner Jesus taught, love our enemies, turn the cheek, feed the hungry, clothe the naked, visit the imprisoned.  In our world today, Jesus would also ask us to welcome the immigrant, help our poor by having a tax base that is equitable and fair, fight for health care for everyone, stop killing the innocents in war, stop wars...I could go on but that's enough for now.  I am reminded of and old story about asking God the hard questions. 

When she finally met God, she asked "Why didn't you do something about the hungry and the suffering.  and God's responses was "Why didn't you?" 

Please pray for courage, compassion, and good sense for each of us as we try to follow the teaching the Jesus.  The following is the passage that I encourage you to reflect and ponder upon.

1 John 3:18-24 (The Message)

18-20My dear children, let's not just talk about love; let's practice real love. This is the only way we'll know we're living truly, living in God's reality. It's also the way to shut down debilitating self-criticism, even when there is something to it. For God is greater than our worried hearts and knows more about us than we do ourselves.

21-24And friends, once that's taken care of and we're no longer accusing or condemning ourselves, we're bold and free before God! We're able to stretch our hands out and receive what we asked for because we're doing what he said, doing what pleases him. Again, this is God's command: to believe in God's personally named Son, Jesus Christ. He told us to love each other, in line with the original command. As we keep God's commands, we live deeply and surely in God, and God lives in us. And this is how we experience God's deep and abiding presence in us: by the Spirit God in us.

When she finally met God, she asked "Why didn't you do something about the hungry and the suffering.  and God's responses was "Why didn't you?"


2007.09.05

After-School Faith, Art, & Music Program - Friday - October 5

The after-school program Friday program,  Jus' 4 kids, will begin on October 5 at 3:00 PM to 5:30.  The afternoon will consist of faith stories, art projects and music.  Children will take part in musicals and learn how to read music at the same time.  Dinner will be served at 5:00.    If you are interested, please contact  Pastor Sarah email:  sarah@bethelcpc.org.  For Grades K-5.  Per Semester fee:  $50 registration/materials

2007.09.03

Happy Labor Day!

Americans have great holidays!!!  Labor day was started in the 1800's by a union who wanted to celebrate and honor the "working man."   It also marks the last day, folks could wear white (I've never understood this).  The beginnings of fall are in the air.  News this morning  compared Labor Day to New Years Day because we do a whole new thing in September.   

Labor in the 1800's is far different than it is now.  We had manufacturing plants here instead of outsourcing our goods.  Unions were definitely there to save folks from dangerous workplaces and push for good wages but not in foreign countries where the U.S. makes or buys most of their products.   

So what does Labor Day the holiday mean to any of us when "work" is so different. Most businesses don't give folks a full 40 hours or more than half time for fear having to provide health benefits or other things like a fair wage.   Okay a bit sarcastic, but.....  Just a note just because one works 40 hours doesn't mean their employer will give them health benefits.   If the woker had a union, yes but otherwise no.

In one of my readings for my DMin Program by `Justo Gonzales The Bible through HIspanic Eyes" he shared that preaching the Ten Commandments takes on a different message when in front of an immigrant community.  Specifically, we have the commandment that after we work six days we get to rest.   He says that in many communities they want to work six days, not the two or three days  of work they can get.   When one preaches, one needs to know the context.   Does God then say in the commandments that we are reqyured  to work six days and then rest.  If that is the case, then if we cannot find work for everyone to work six days are we following the commandments. I know that people have to work six days a week just to make ends meet.  What does it mean to work six days and rest.   For most of us  our "normal work week" is five days, do we need to find another day to work.    Maybe....  I'm still thinking about this.

Keep safe this holday.   Labor on but first pray for those who want to work, who struggle in difficult work enviroments so they can live and blessings to those companies who day care for the "laborers"!!

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