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October 2007

2007.10.25

I am on Facebook!!!

My gifted and talented son Bruce (Kevin is gifted and talented also!) is helping me get on Facebook, the way of networking in this new technology.    As I had earlier posted, Kevin's girlfriends, said, "It' just wrong!" Her reaction to "old" people getting on facebook.   Facebook was originated from university/college students as a way of getting to know people on the campus.   It of course now has become bigger than that where a lot of "old" people are signing on.    For those on Facebook now,  be paitient with me!   

2007.10.24

Daddy's Girl

This past wImg_3341eekend I attended the "Revolve Tour" a Women of Faith gathering for young girls.   We brought seven young women to hear the many messages that building up self-esteem and images from God's point of view.    Although the theology of the event was a bit more conservative than mine, it was a good gathering for the girls to be exposed to and provided opportunities for many questions and dialogue.  Specifically, the male terms to describe God sets me off a bit.  But I believe that everyone is entitled to call God whatever God is to them and folks just need to call God often if not always.   I also believe that I cannot put God in a box.  God is God.   I call God many names, Mother, Creator, Spirit, Life, Father, etc, the many discriptors that enables me to believe in a loving and compassionate God. 

At this gathering they had a conversation about being "Daddy's Girl"   translated "God's the Father's girl"  A Rapper had a song entitled "Daddy's Girl."  T-shirts were sold with this theme.  Kinda cute.  The message was that if your physical father is a jerk, you have your spiritual father who will love you no matter what.  A spiritual father that will be there for you, even if your father walked out on you!  I have a now appreciation for the term "Daddy's Girl."   More illustrations like this were listed.   They also used the illustration of "treasures and targets."   Which one are you?  A treasure which is  unique and valuable and esteemed  or a target- what you do about yourself that make certain people take aim at you (poor choices, the choice of dress, friends, attitude goals, etc.) 

I wondered, "Where is the pastoral care for the girls that are struggling with the issue of fathers who abandon, abuse or just aren't there for their daughters?"   There wasn't a message, "If these messages cause you pain, anxiety, or tears, go to Section A to ask more questions and to be with someone who can help you through this?  So I was more aware that it was my role to check in with the young women I was with answer any questions they may have.   

This gathering had a rapper, rock star, and olympic gold medalist.   A Drama team that shared the everyday issues of listening, parents, peer pressure.   My greatest observation in this mass of 5,000-6,000 girls is that I did not see much skin or belly buttons.  As if the message was, "good Christian girls don't show off their bodies."    Now this is one message I could preach.   But not.... because for me it is about the messages that affect the inner soul and mind of the young women.

If you want to more about the messages and the music go to the revolve tour .
   

2007.10.23

The Piano Duet

Be prepared for the piano duet concert!   Lolo and Ava  composing! Lolo_and_ava

2007.10.07

Socialism vs. Christian"ism"

In the great debate over health care the terms "socialism and communism" manage to sneak themselves in in arguements agains universal health care.       I think that we do indeed support socialism when it benefits us.   The U.S. military is designed after a socialist structure.   We are proud of our military and we believe everyone needs care, also everyone needs to know their duty, and of course, everyone needs to be loyal and follow without question their leaders.  And went they don't follow, we know what happens!

I am tired of folks using labels to get folks against a good idea by using a term that  denotes "unamerican ideals."  In our day and age, what exactly is that, when the gap between the rich and the poor is widening at such a rapid rate that the middle is diminishing as I write.    Or when our President says something like, we need health care for the poor not for the children of the well off!"  What is he thinking?    Here's my position, should I child of a waitress have the same benefits of a child of a CEO of a Bank/Savings and Loan or one of those organizations we bail out when their in trouble?   The answer is every child should have the same benefits.  So either the CEO's child should have the same health care of the poor child or...?  Hmm

Michale Moore of "Sicko" the documentary of health care in the United States was on Oprah the other day and he and another advocate for universal health care said that those opposing universal health care should stop using the term socialist but rather we should say that we are adopting a health care system based on Jesus.   What a notion!   A health care system that includes everyone no strings attached.   A health care system that guides folks to good health.  Jesus rarely put conditions on people he healed, his basic request was "don't tell anyone what I did."   And of course, we did tell.  And who got angry, the people in charge!!!  And what happened?   Angry because he healed inspite of the rules.  Angry because it would take money out of their pockets for healing (wait a minute, that would be our current health insurance lobby!))  You get my point, Jesus healed, forgave, and saved many from death and when he did this they called him names including traitor, criminal and   Probably a "socialist or communist" (whatever the translation may have been in that day)

I was  in the company of Daniel Ortega several years ago when I was in Nicaragua.  He said that the US painted him as a communist and didn't believe in Jesus.  He told us that that wasn't true.    He did believe in Jesus.  His Jesus was not the Jesus that presented himself in the priests in the church who blessed the weapons in that killed his people.  His Jesus was the Jesus who went into the streets to help the oppressed.  Which Jesus do you vision?

So stop the socialist communist thing!   Let's start talking about a health care system that is based on Jesus' teaching.   So instead of socialism how about Christianism, its worth a try.

2007.10.06

Fasting for Peace - End Fast@Bethel 8PM-October 8

Everyone is invited to participate in the Interfaith Fast for Peace.  From sunrise to sunset, fast and pray for peace on October 8, 2007.   Come to Bethel at 8PM for a simple meal, prayers and communion.
Here is more information about the fast.

Multifaith leaders to fast for peace, end to Iraq war

Leaders from many religious communities have urged Americans of all faiths
to fast from dawn to dusk on Monday, October 8 to call for an end to the war
in Iraq.

"This war must end!" say the religious leaders in their statement about the
interfaith fast. "We must end the shattering of Iraqi and American lives by
offering American generosity and support -- but not control -- for
international and nongovernmental efforts to assist Iraqis in making peace
and rebuilding their country, while swiftly and safely bringing home all
American troops."

Bishop Christopher Epting, the Episcopal Church's ecumenical and interfaith
officer, is among those religious leaders supporting the event.

"Surely the one thing people of faith can do together to work for peace is
to use the ancient spiritual disciplines which we share in common," said
Epting. "Prayer and fasting together, particularly during times of the year
when a number of our traditions mark major holy seasons and days, seem
pretty basic. I hope many Episcopalians will join this nationwide effort."

The religious leaders are inviting millions of Americans to organize joint
interfaith events in local communities to fast and break the fast together.
Events can be registered here ( http://www.interfaithfast.org) where groups
can find a toolkit to assist in organizing such gatherings.

"American culture, society, and policy are addicted to violence at home and
overseas," says the organizing statement. "In our time, the hope of a decent
future is endangered by an unnecessary, morally abhorrent, and disastrous
war. Ending this war can become the first step toward a policy that embodies
a deeper, broader sense of generosity and community at home and in the
world."

2007.10.05

Parking Lot Sale - October 6@Bethel 9AM-4PM

Come and browse!  Our Parking Lot sale has lots of goodies and great stuff, washer/dryers, 42" TV, and more.    Proceeds to benefit our music program!

2007.10.04

WORLD COMMUNION SUNDAY - October 7 4PM

We will be celebrating World Communion Sunday with four churches on Sunday October 7 at 4PM. followed by a potluck dinner and music by the Christian band "Justo a Tiempo"   All are invited.

2007.10.03

"Respect Heaven Love People"

“Respect heaven love people” is the business motto of Kyocera, a company in Japan. I am in the middle  of writing my thesis (Yes, I am not done yet!) and part of the thesis is to look at organizations and their styles of leadership. 

Kazuo Inamori, founder and President of Kyocera believes that “people have their own will, their own mind and their own way of thinking. If people are not sufficiently motivated to challenge the goals of growth and technological development…there will simply be no growth, no gain in productivity, and no technological development. “ In addition, Inamori believes that tapping the potential of people will require a new understanding of the “subconscious mind.” “willpower,” and “action of the heart…sincere desire to serve the world.” Inamori teaches Kyocera employees to strive for “perfection” guided by their motto, “Respect Heaven Love People” In turn he believes that it is his duty as manager starts with “providing for both the material good and spiritual welfare of his employees.” (Peter Senge, The Fifth Discipline. 139)

As followers of Jesus we are supposed to always be striving for perfection using the principles that Jesus teaches us. But of course, human perfection is a misnomer because we humans we fall short of God’s expectation of perfect. Perfection isn’t about our looks, jobs or lifestyles,  it is about what is in our hearts.  I don’t believe that Inamori is Christian but his way of doing business looks a lot like Jesus’ teachings.

What if this country did business as if we really were “under God”? What if in the United States all US companies' mottos were “Respect Heaven Love People? What if we were all taught that the “action of the heart” is about a "sincere desire to serve the world?” These “what if” questions for some are impossible to conceive because thinking “what if” would mean that just asking  the question would mean change! It is the “what if?” questions that spark conversations about change.

 I don’t think I am going to stop asking “what if?” because we need the conversations. I need to ask, What does God call us to do? What does it really mean to follow Jesus? How are we a presence of God in this community? These conversations are important in the life of the church. James and Evelyn Whitehead in their book, Method in Ministry – Theological  Reflection and Christian Faith say,

 “The metaphor of conversation reminds us that pastoral reflection is meant to be a communal exercise, not a monologue nor a lecture. If only one’s person’s voice is heard or only one group’s concerns are acknowledged, there is no conversation. ..theological reflection as a conversation is not simply an emergency strategy to meet a momentary need. We do not have a conversation – about poverty or consumerism or sexuality or authority – so that we can settle the matter once and for all and be done with the need for such engagement. The conversation is our life together. Such a community dialogue is a habit, both pleasurable and painful, in which our faith is tested and matures. This realization helps us bridge the gap between theological discipline and the everyday life of Christian Faith.” (p4)

Without our conversations, Bethel would not be. Conversations are “our life together.” Conversations are critical and essential for good health. Just in our regular life, if we aren’t in  conversations with those closest to us about our fears, needs, hopes and dreams, our relationships will not grow and strengthen. This is the life of a community of faith, to be in conversation regularly about God’s role in our life and God’s call on our lives.

I will continue to ask the “what if?” questions, not because we are in a stuck place but because we are working on our relationship with God and the community. We strive for “perfection.” We practice loving God and loving neighbor or in Inamori’s words, “Respect heaven, love people.”

 We are doing well. People are coming to Faith Encounters (which by the way is fun and lively!) music is powerful, messages are relevant, worship attendance and giving is up. There is great energy in the air. We are doing well.

I recently received the following from someone who knows our faith community and most recently attended the “Bark A Lot in the Parking Lot.”

“after the "dog show" event on Saturday, as I was walking home, I was reflecting on all that your church does. A little flock with a few people, but you all really do make your presence known. I thought about how friendly people are -- and yes, now, everyone seems to know me -- but I remember back in your early days how you challenged them to be open, friendly and welcoming. And I think that they are.

Then I got this little missive today, about how people act when people come in to their church, sit at their pews etc. And it made me think, again, how welcoming and open

Bethel

is / has become. So I am sending not because you and your congregants reflect that worse of this message...but that they reflect the best of this message. “

Here is the message to which she refers:

One day, a man went to visit a church.. He got there early, parked his car, and got out.

Another car pulled up and the driver got  out and said,"I always park there!

You took my place!" 

The visitor went inside for Sunday School, found an empty seat and sat down.

A young lady from the church  approached him and stated,

"That's my seat! You took my place!"

The visitor was somewhat distressed by this rude welcome, but said nothing.

After Sunday School, the visitor went  into the sanctuary and sat down.

Another member walked up to him and said,

"That's where I always sit!  You took my place!”

  The visitor was even more troubled by this treatment, but still He said nothing.

Later as the congregation was praying for Christ to dwell among them,

the visitor stood up, and his appearance began to change.

Horrible scars became visible on his hands and on his sandaled feet.

Someone from the congregation noticed him and called out, "What happened to you?"

The visitor replied, as his hat became a crown of thorns, and a tear fell from his eye,

"I took your place."

 

For many of you, it is hard to imagine that  Bethel was described as the church above.  It is because of the "what if?" questions and our conversations together in community that we have grown out of the above description.  Thanks be to God! 

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